Adult Sex Toys By Vibe A Lot

Question of the Day:

My wife and I enjoy a fantastic sex life. We also travel all over the country. Neither of us is fond of carrying a suitcase full of bondage gear into a hotel, nor do we really care for the idea of some airport kid pawing through our personal sex items. Are there any space saving ways of creating a kinky experience in a hotel room while you are traveling that doesn’t require bringing a traveling sideshow with us?

Angel’s Point Of View:

There are always fun and kinky ways of playing with your partner on the go. Travel shouldn’t slow down your sex life, but I understand the need to keep your private life to yourself at the airport. There are a few things to think of in a hotel room. You can’t mount anything to the wall or cieling. You have to take the equipment down and with you when you go, and you don’t want to alarm security anywhere.

Let’s take your dungeon basics one at a time. First, furniture. Since you don’t have a spanking bench with you, nor will one fit in your suitcase, pick up a Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Bondage Chair. These inflatable chairs have tie points built in and they hold up to 300lbs. Even better, when you are done, you can deflate it and fold it back up into the box it comes in.

Next is movable tie points or restraint systems. The simplest thing here is some door jam cuffs. You toss these things over your hotel bathroom door and shut it. Stoppers keep the restraints from being pulled down. Let me tell you, these things are insanely secure and don’t thump around too much.

The last part is your kinky gear. Pack a few basic essentials. There is no need to bring every item you have for a good time. On top of your essentials is to use what you have. If your room has a freezer, keep some ice on hand for temperature play. Give and recieve massages with eachother with the lotion the hotel puts in your room. Use your imagination.

Question of the Day:

I’m curious about the “strapless strap-on”, the Feeldoe. I’ve been reading reviews on it and found that they are mixed, but mostly because some women have trouble ‘holding’ them in during penetrative sex. How will I know if I am one of those women? I’d like to know before I invest in something that I can’t return.

Angel’s Point Of View

That is a great question I know a lot of women are going to wonder about before a purchase like that. This new type of strapon packs a ton of sensation related benifits for both people, but that does hinge on you being able to hold your end, so to speak. Toys like the Feeldoe and Fun Factory Share are strap free methods of strapon sex and well worth the upgrade.

Try picking up some Ben-Wa Balls style balls like Luna Beads that are specifically made for vaginal fitness. These discreet little balls will help you tone your pelvic floor muscles. When you are at work or other places you might be uncomfortable using something like this, simple kegal excersizes that involve tightening your pelvic muscles, holding them for 10 seconds, and releasing will keep you in tune.

These excersizes will quickly take care of any worry you have about keeping your new toy inside of you. You’ll also find that you have greater control over your orgasm as well as a stronger orgasm as a result from your new muscle control.

Question of the Day

I have been sex toy shopping, but I’m not sure how my boyfriend will react. I’ve approached the subject of adding toys into our sex life, but my boyfriend has gotten a little jealous at the idea. I’m not sure how to let him know that I want to choose toys that will enhance what we have, not replace him. What is a girl to do?

Angel’s Point of View

Plastic, rubber, and batteries will never replace what you have with the man you love. You know it, and I know it. Does HE know it? Sit down and talk to him outside of sexual situations. Forplay is not the time for this discussion. Let him know that you love what you have together and you’d like to explore new ground together. Emphasize that together part! Try to find sex toys that enhance what he has without replacing him. If you pick a vibrator, your best bet is to go with one smaller than he is. Be delicate with his ego until he gets used to the idea of mechanical devices in the bedroom. Remember to compliment his moves rather than concentrating on the toys.

Question of the Day:

Angel, I started dating a woman a short time ago who has a disability. She can no longer walk and is confined to a wheelchair. While I’m very much falling in love with her, I’m not sure how to deal with intimacy when the time comes. I’m attracted to this beautiful person that I’m afraid to hurt. I don’t want her to think that I see only her disability, but it is a real factor here. What do I do to keep from loosing her, but practice sex that it wholly safe for her?

Angel’s Point Of View:

What her disability is will effect the specifics of how you do things safely, but for the most part, disabled people can lead perfectly normal sex lives. First, talk to her doctor. I guarantee any doctor that works with her disability has been asked about sex before. The doctor will let you know what precautions to take. Second, use common sense. If her disability effects her muscles and joints, don’t try sex swinging from the cieling fan.

Common sense is the biggest factor in addressing a challenge to sex. There are ramps and pillows designed to maintain body angles for sex called Love Bumpers. If she has a hard time controlling her legs, try these neat pillows so she does not have to fight to stay in a position. Get creative, if muscle spasms are a problem for her, find positions that help her relax, and only use soft rubber or cyberskin toys instead of hard plastic.

Lastly, talk to her. Unless she’s a virgin, she probably has a few ideas or thoughts on how to make sex everything it should be between you. Talk about working through this together and move forward when you both are ready. The rest will work itself out.

Question of the Day

Angel, My wife and I would love to try something new and have fantisized about public sex for years. The problem is, we are terrified of getting caught. It would be even worse if it were someone we knew or the situation was illegal and led to arrest. How can we fulfill the public sex fantasies and keep our reputations and clean police records?

Angel’s Point Of View:

We all want to try something daring and exciting, and it is good to see you are thinking through the realities as well. Public sex is a tricky one, but the solutions are pretty simple. The first is to try some nookie in a private, public place. Someplace like in the garage at home or out in the woods near a cabin you rent for the weekend. These places are outside of your comfort zone, but have a low risk of getting caught. They might help satisfy that spontaneous urge you feel. The second option is more covert. There are adult toys that she can wear under her clothes like vibrating panties or the Remote Control Waterproof Venus Butterfly that rests on her clit. Both of these items come with a wireless remote that you could hold and control, giving her unexpected jolts of pleasure. Vibrations are good for men too, so consider a similar item for yourself with the roles reversed. Knowing you are giving one another these sensations without anyone being the wiser is definately a daring escape.

Question of the Day:

Angel, I have a fabulous, monogamous relationship with my husband. He’s good to our children, romantic with me, helpful around the house, and ultimately, everything a husband should be. Here comes the, “but”. During sex, he’s a wonderful lover. He’s very attentive and caring, but he has begun to get his feeling hurt. We spice up our marriage with toys. The problem is that most of my toys are bigger than he is. I don’t judge him for being smaller than average, and I will always love him, but I am worried I will have to put aside that bit of satisfaction for the health of my marriage. What can we do?

Angel’s Point Of Vie

Sometimes the male ego is fragile, just like the female ego. We want to be everything to our partners and sometimes that isn’t reality. Talk to your husband openly and honestly. Tell him that he satisfies all of your desires except this one. Tell him you appreciate the fact that he is so understanding of your needs. Next, offer some ways to work through it together. Toy companies market penis extentions that pop right on his member. These toys are a sheith that goes onto the head of the penis, and it will usually add an inch or two. This would allow him to satisfy your need for size himself instead of feeling left out of the game.

Question of the Day:

Angel, I want to get my girfriend something sexy for her birthday, but I don’t want the gift to come with any pressure or to come off like I’m only thinking of myself. I know she likes to feel sexy, and we play with toys together a lot, but I want to get her something that is sexy and fun for her without looking like a sleaze. I’ve looked through pages of toys, lingerie, and gifts, and they all look like gifts that say, “For your birthday, lets have sex!”. What do you suggest?

Angel’s Point of View:

Unless your girlfriend is hypersensitive, which I suspect she isn’t, this shouldn’t be a problem so long as the gift is from the heart. Sex gifts are always tricky though. One idea that would be for her and her alone is to set it up so you wouldn’t be around for the gifts trial. When she gets home, run her a bubble bath, light some candles, toss around the rose petals. Then, leave a non-threatening toy like the I Rub My Duckie or I Rub My Fishie on the side of the tub with a note instructing her to squeeze the cute, cartoonish duck or fish for a sweet surprise. Send her to the bath, then leave the house to give her some quiet alone time.

Question of the Day:

Angel, My boyfriend and I are going green in our lives. We recycle our glass bottles, cut down on the amount of packaging we consume, and we drive hybrid cars. Is there any way to go green in your sex life?

Angel’s Point Of View

Of course there are ways to make your sex more environmentally sound. There are organic and naturally based lubes on the market that cost about the same as their synthetic competitors. If you find one that works for you, go for it. Cut down how many batteries you use. Before you freak out, I’m not advocating you give up your vibrator. If you are anti batteries and what they do to the environment, try picking up an Earth Angel Massager. This vibrator never needs batteries; you just crank the end (sort of like your emergency radio) and you are good to go. A light on the toy tells you when you are running low on power. When you are done with the toy, the energy that it didn’t use will be saved for your next playtime.

Question of the Day:

Angel, My G-spot is killing me. Everyone I know has found theirs but me I think and it is driving me up the wall. I am almost convinced that I don’t have one. My friends seem confused as to where to locate this mythical spot, but know that theirs brings them some untold joy and treasure. What can a girl do?

Angel’s Point Of View:

First of all honey, relax. If you are enjoying sex, there is likely nothing wrong with you. Some women are more sensitive in certain areas than others, and some women report that the g-spot is not all it’s hyped up to be. Some women simply cannot find it. Your best bet, if you feel the need to hunt down your internal pleasure points is going to be flying solo. Pick out a waterproof g-spot vibrator. These toys are designed with a curve that aims for the right area. Run yourself a bubble bath, climb in, and relax. If you get to your toy, use it as comes naturally. Take your time. If you find your spot, I applaud you. If you do not, stick to techniques you enjoy and don’t let a little patch of skin take away from the joy you take from sex.

Question of the Day:

Angel, this might sound like a dumb question. You see a lot in movies where guys will drag ice down a girls stomach or on her nipples, and I’ve heard friends rave about temperature play like using warm water and ice or breath strips. I have even heard of friends using metal or plastic things kept in the freezer to cut down on mess. Is this a safe thing to do to skin? Are there limits on what you can do?

Angel’s Point Of View:

There are always limits on what you can do when it comes to sexual escapades, but temperature play in itself is not an unsafe thing to do. As with anything there are proper and improper tools to get the job done. Ice cubes are great. To get the sensual gliding effect, give them a few seconds in your hand to let the surface melt. Be careful what objects you freeze for temperature play. Some thing work, others don’t, so use common sense. An easy way to take care of this is to pick up toys specifically made for temperature play. A line gaining in popularity are the odd looking Dai-Do toys. They are made of high grade aluminum that conducts heat and cold very well. This makes them ideal for temperature play. If you are going to use at home products in your freezer, remember what happens when you put a wet tongue to a pole in winter. If you freeze something metal like strands of dog-tag type chain to run over your loves body or a freezable rolling pin, remember to run your hand over the item several times afte ryou pull it out of the freezer, or just run a bit of cold water over it so that it will not stick to her skin.