Adult Sex Toys By Vibe A Lot

Question of the Day:

My nipples are very sensitive, and I love having them played with. Biting, pulling, or teasing, it does not matter. I try to get my boyfriend to do more with them, but his imagination doesn’t seem to go far beyond a bit of nibbling. How can he pay more attention to them and still stay engaged?

Angel’s Point Of View:

I have to admit that unless you enjoy the sight of nipples, there is not much you can do without equipment. Fortunately, there is plenty of it available!

Nipple clamps are easy ways to create sensation that stays. Vibrating nipple clamps do the same thing with more intensity. Start with something simple like Adjustable C-Clamps and work your way up to the Black Japanese Clover Clamps. 

If you are looking for something more shocking, start learning about electric play. With a bit of safety instruction, you can get an Zeus Electrosex Deluxe Digital Power Box that works something like a TENS unit. It sends electrical impulses into whatever part of the body you have it attached to, and nipples are a great spot for it.

Question of the Day:

I have been looking through the lingerie catelogs, and I am at a loss. I’d love to buy one of the corsets I find there, but I have no idea how to size them. The sizes seem to go from the 20’s to the 40’s. Is there a size chart I can find for these?

Angel’s Point of View:

Corsets fall under the heading of fetish clothing, which can all be difficult to size. Corsets can be pretty easy though. What you do is pick up a tape measure. Wrap it around the small of your waist. Take that number and subtract either 2 inches or 4 inches depending on how used to wearing shapewear you are. If you’ve worn a girdle your whole life, you can probably remove three or four inches. If not, go with two.

There is an upside to all this hassle. If you wear them on a regular basis, you can work your way into smaller sizes. It’s a long process called corset training. Corsets are also great for helping your posture, and dropping weight is easy in one since you are pulled so tightly.

Good quality is essential when you pick out a corset. Try getting a premium black leather corset to give you just the look you need without sacrificing quality and wear.

Question of the Day:

My partner has a latex allergy, and it has made our love life somewhat of a challenge in terms of experimentation. We worry so much about what has latex in it and what will cause her allergy to flare up. I won’t go into details, but lets say that it is not a mild allergy. We’re both interested in all the new shiny fetish clothes and lingerie, and we both love playing with toys. What can we do to avoid latex issues?

Angel’s Point Of View:

This can sometimes be a very inconvenient issue to brave, but a little creativity goes a long way. If you are going to parties to show off your fetish fashions, have her wear leather gloves. This will allow her to make contact at the event without risk of an allergy flare up. As for her own clothing, shiny pvc that fits very tight can help pull off the latex look without risking her safety. Shiny metallic fabrics may do the same thing for her.

When it comes to your toy collection, read labels and don’t buy anything that says “for novelty use only on it”. There are lots of silicone toys coming out that have the feel of rubber with no latex. If the label doesn’t say what the toy is made of, chances are it might have latex in it if the toy is a rubber looking one. Pyrex and steel are two really hot materials for toys right now, and there is a growing number of people purchasing polished stone and wood toys. This means that you have plenty of options without straying onto dangerous ground. If you are looking for the S&M gear, it is hard to give up rubber, but if you play with some different toy styles, you can find toys in leather and other materials that pack a similar sting.

Question of the Day:

My wife has very small hips and a large waist. She’s gorgeous, but it makes it hard to get into certain positions. I’d love to try some new things and so would she, but we aren’t sure of the mechanics of our situation. Is there any positions you recommend or any help getting into the ones we have trouble with?

Angel’s Point of View:

There are as many positions for sex as there are stars in the sky. Try positions that flow well with her body shape and yours. Wrestling around playfully will actually give you a great many ideas. Doing this you forget that you are finding the right positions, so things are more open to you that you would not have thought of.

There are new padded furnishings out there that are discreet to help you get into awkward positions. Try a Love Bumper Iceberg – Black. This sloped pillow has a curve to fit her body and will put her hips and back into several fun positions depending on how you use it. It lets her rest comfortably so she can concentrate on the sexual experience without hurting herself.

Question of the Day

I have a problem. Sometimes at the beginning of sex, I get a little overstimulated and my finale comes early. My wife has told me that it happens to a lot of guys and she is very supportive, but that doesn’t really make me feel much better. Is there anything I can do?

Angel’s Point of View:

It does happen to a lot of guys, but not a lot of guys are as ready as you are to do something about it. Taking control of your sex life is the first step, and you have already done that. Second is to address the problems causes.

You said it only happens sometimes. Try asking your wife to go easy on your genitals during forplay. Make it about her for a few minutes before she gets her hands on you. This lets her get a head start so you are more likely to cross the finish line closer together.

Second, look around at the products for sustaining or desensitizing. Avoid mail order male enhancement products. They are not tested or regulated by the FDA, and some of them are plain unsafe. For a simple solution, try Trojan Extended Pleasure Condoms with Climax Control. Condoms in general slow your pleasure some, but these have a lubricant that lowers the sensation your recieve. This keeps you from getting overstimulated too quickly. If this proves too much for you, just try a regular condom.

Question of the Day: My wife and I want to try bondage, but we aren’t sure where to get started. I don’t want to do something unsafe or end up looking like a fool. Are there any basic beginner rules so that I can have a good experience? Angel’s Point Of View: Bondage can be a fun and safe sex game to play as long as you both agree to what is happening in the beginning and play safely. First, throw out the traditional bondage games most people think of. Satin ribbon and scarves tend to get tighter when knots in them are pulled on, and they can leave rope burn on her wrists. Second, handcuffs are iffy too. even if you pad the inside of the cuffs, one strong jerk can leave bruises or worse. For beginners, I recommend leather cuffs for the most part. Leather cuffs are easy to snap into place and they are designed to be pulled on. If you are set on rope for bondage, nylon bondage rope or hemp rope are your best bets. Pick up a couple books to help you get the basics down. Avoid anything that cuts of air or circulation. Your body will always need air and blood, even during bedroom games.

Question of the Day:

I’m stuck at the office throughout the day and sometimes late at night. These days being on salary might mean more job security, it also means more work. To make up for the time away, my wife and I use instant messengers and chat programs to talk during the evening while I’m in the office alone. We tease eachother regularly with innuendo, but I’d like to do more for her while I’m away. Is there anything technology can do to help me?

Angel’s Point of View:

Technology is ever increasing in all areas of our lives, including sex. There are a number of things you can do to increase the intimacy between you both. The first solution could be webcams. It sounds like you have your own office rather than a cubicle where you are being watched. If you know your job doesn’t monitor your connection or doesn’t worry about what you’re doing on there, pick you each up a set of webcams. While you cannot get undressed on camera in your office, your wife will be able to see you and you can see her.

Technology has also given us the next generation of adult toys. The Internet Rabbit is one of my favorites. They took a rather traditional rabbit style vibrator and made it internet friendly. With this toy, you can give her pleasure right from your office computer! The only substitute for that would be you coming home early.

Question of the Day:

My husband wants to explore anal. I’ve been assured by friends and magazines that this isn’t an unusual request. I’ve read enough to know that his prosate is what I want to get at, but I don’t even know where it is. I don’t want to hurt my husband physically trying something new, and I don’t want to disappoint him either. Do you have any suggestions?

Angel’s Point of View:

Prostate play can be a lot of fun for your husband, but you are right to do your research to start with. Let me give you a few thoughts that will help you along that road.

1. The anus is NOT self lubricating. A good water or silicone based lube is imperative here. Tears to that part of your husband’s body would not be good for either of you, so use a healthy amount of lube.

2. This seems to be new territory for both of you. Go slowly and don’t rush. The anus is finicky and you can cause a great deal of discomfort by pushing in while he isn’t relaxed. Press the toy you’re using in just a bit at a time then hold it and give him time to relax. If he feels any pain, back up and go slower.

3. Start with smaller toys and work up. This may seem like common sense, but remember that certain equipment is made for certain parts. Your toys are not suited for his backside. Try picking up toys specifically suited to find the prostate, like a Nexus Glide. This toy even comes with a rollerball that stimulates his perineum.

Question of the Day

I’ve seen fucking machines on a few different sex programs, but I’m not sure if it’s the kind of thing my husband and I would use. Part of me really wants to try one, and another part of me thinks that it might be a little over the top for us. I wouldn’t even know how to pick out one. What is the difference between the machines? Are there any that don’t feel like stage props or sci-fi sex?

Angel’s Point Of View

Fucking machines can be a wonderful addition to something you already have. If you decide to get one, think first about the role it will play in your sex life. Does your husband like to watch you? Does he have stamina issues and need a little help going the distance? Do you both just want to try something new? The answers to these questions are exactly what will make the decision for you.

If you are looking to try something new, but you don’t want to go over the top in size or price, you could try a Fucksaw. It is not as harsh a toy as it sounds. It looks like a little power tool, but packs all the punch of a full size unit. This one will keep him involved, because he’s got to hold the toy.

If he likes to watch you, or you just need to go longer than he can give you, a full size model might be in order. Which you get depends on your needs. For couples, I like the TLC Caesar. It comes with attachments to stimulate both male and female partners, and it is not an overly bulky machine.

Talk to your husband and come up with a solution that works for both of you.

Question of the Day:

My wife and I enjoy a fantastic sex life. We also travel all over the country. Neither of us is fond of carrying a suitcase full of bondage gear into a hotel, nor do we really care for the idea of some airport kid pawing through our personal sex items. Are there any space saving ways of creating a kinky experience in a hotel room while you are traveling that doesn’t require bringing a traveling sideshow with us?

Angel’s Point Of View:

There are always fun and kinky ways of playing with your partner on the go. Travel shouldn’t slow down your sex life, but I understand the need to keep your private life to yourself at the airport. There are a few things to think of in a hotel room. You can’t mount anything to the wall or cieling. You have to take the equipment down and with you when you go, and you don’t want to alarm security anywhere.

Let’s take your dungeon basics one at a time. First, furniture. Since you don’t have a spanking bench with you, nor will one fit in your suitcase, pick up a Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Bondage Chair. These inflatable chairs have tie points built in and they hold up to 300lbs. Even better, when you are done, you can deflate it and fold it back up into the box it comes in.

Next is movable tie points or restraint systems. The simplest thing here is some door jam cuffs. You toss these things over your hotel bathroom door and shut it. Stoppers keep the restraints from being pulled down. Let me tell you, these things are insanely secure and don’t thump around too much.

The last part is your kinky gear. Pack a few basic essentials. There is no need to bring every item you have for a good time. On top of your essentials is to use what you have. If your room has a freezer, keep some ice on hand for temperature play. Give and recieve massages with eachother with the lotion the hotel puts in your room. Use your imagination.