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Question of the Day

I was looking for some new tricks online, and I came across the word “figging”. What kind of practice is this?

Angel’s Point Of View:

Figging is the act of taking a piece of ginger root, peeling it, and applying it to the genitals. Usually this means inserting the peeled section into the anus or the vagina. It produces a warm, burning sensation that can very from mild to intense.

You can do this safely if you follow a few simple rules.

1. Pick good ginger. Do not pick ginger that feels squishy or soft. A firm, light colored piece of ginger is best. It goes without saying to pick a piece that will be in roughly the shape of a finger when it’s peeled for ease of insertion.

2. Have some baby wipes on hand in case the sensation is too intense. They should remove the ginger juices pretty quickly.

3. Test! Use a small piece for a short period of time before you jump right into this.

4. Make sure your piece of ginger root has a big knob at the back end so it doesn’t slide all the way into the anus or vagina.

5. If putting ginger in the vagina, make sure she is turned on. The ginger will have more effect if she is excited and wet. For best result, play some adult movies to get her worked up first.

If you find that figging is too much for you, check out some sex toys that can provide varied sensations. Sometimes the things built for sex are best.

Question of the Day:

My wife has very small hips and a large waist. She’s gorgeous, but it makes it hard to get into certain positions. I’d love to try some new things and so would she, but we aren’t sure of the mechanics of our situation. Is there any positions you recommend or any help getting into the ones we have trouble with?

Angel’s Point of View:

There are as many positions for sex as there are stars in the sky. Try positions that flow well with her body shape and yours. Wrestling around playfully will actually give you a great many ideas. Doing this you forget that you are finding the right positions, so things are more open to you that you would not have thought of.

There are new padded furnishings out there that are discreet to help you get into awkward positions. Try a Love Bumper Iceberg – Black. This sloped pillow has a curve to fit her body and will put her hips and back into several fun positions depending on how you use it. It lets her rest comfortably so she can concentrate on the sexual experience without hurting herself.

Question of the Day: My wife and I want to try bondage, but we aren’t sure where to get started. I don’t want to do something unsafe or end up looking like a fool. Are there any basic beginner rules so that I can have a good experience? Angel’s Point Of View: Bondage can be a fun and safe sex game to play as long as you both agree to what is happening in the beginning and play safely. First, throw out the traditional bondage games most people think of. Satin ribbon and scarves tend to get tighter when knots in them are pulled on, and they can leave rope burn on her wrists. Second, handcuffs are iffy too. even if you pad the inside of the cuffs, one strong jerk can leave bruises or worse. For beginners, I recommend leather cuffs for the most part. Leather cuffs are easy to snap into place and they are designed to be pulled on. If you are set on rope for bondage, nylon bondage rope or hemp rope are your best bets. Pick up a couple books to help you get the basics down. Avoid anything that cuts of air or circulation. Your body will always need air and blood, even during bedroom games.

Question of the Day

I’ve seen fucking machines on a few different sex programs, but I’m not sure if it’s the kind of thing my husband and I would use. Part of me really wants to try one, and another part of me thinks that it might be a little over the top for us. I wouldn’t even know how to pick out one. What is the difference between the machines? Are there any that don’t feel like stage props or sci-fi sex?

Angel’s Point Of View

Fucking machines can be a wonderful addition to something you already have. If you decide to get one, think first about the role it will play in your sex life. Does your husband like to watch you? Does he have stamina issues and need a little help going the distance? Do you both just want to try something new? The answers to these questions are exactly what will make the decision for you.

If you are looking to try something new, but you don’t want to go over the top in size or price, you could try a Fucksaw. It is not as harsh a toy as it sounds. It looks like a little power tool, but packs all the punch of a full size unit. This one will keep him involved, because he’s got to hold the toy.

If he likes to watch you, or you just need to go longer than he can give you, a full size model might be in order. Which you get depends on your needs. For couples, I like the TLC Caesar. It comes with attachments to stimulate both male and female partners, and it is not an overly bulky machine.

Talk to your husband and come up with a solution that works for both of you.

Question of the Day:

My wife and I enjoy a fantastic sex life. We also travel all over the country. Neither of us is fond of carrying a suitcase full of bondage gear into a hotel, nor do we really care for the idea of some airport kid pawing through our personal sex items. Are there any space saving ways of creating a kinky experience in a hotel room while you are traveling that doesn’t require bringing a traveling sideshow with us?

Angel’s Point Of View:

There are always fun and kinky ways of playing with your partner on the go. Travel shouldn’t slow down your sex life, but I understand the need to keep your private life to yourself at the airport. There are a few things to think of in a hotel room. You can’t mount anything to the wall or cieling. You have to take the equipment down and with you when you go, and you don’t want to alarm security anywhere.

Let’s take your dungeon basics one at a time. First, furniture. Since you don’t have a spanking bench with you, nor will one fit in your suitcase, pick up a Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Bondage Chair. These inflatable chairs have tie points built in and they hold up to 300lbs. Even better, when you are done, you can deflate it and fold it back up into the box it comes in.

Next is movable tie points or restraint systems. The simplest thing here is some door jam cuffs. You toss these things over your hotel bathroom door and shut it. Stoppers keep the restraints from being pulled down. Let me tell you, these things are insanely secure and don’t thump around too much.

The last part is your kinky gear. Pack a few basic essentials. There is no need to bring every item you have for a good time. On top of your essentials is to use what you have. If your room has a freezer, keep some ice on hand for temperature play. Give and recieve massages with eachother with the lotion the hotel puts in your room. Use your imagination.

Question of the Day:

Angel, this might sound like a dumb question. You see a lot in movies where guys will drag ice down a girls stomach or on her nipples, and I’ve heard friends rave about temperature play like using warm water and ice or breath strips. I have even heard of friends using metal or plastic things kept in the freezer to cut down on mess. Is this a safe thing to do to skin? Are there limits on what you can do?

Angel’s Point Of View:

There are always limits on what you can do when it comes to sexual escapades, but temperature play in itself is not an unsafe thing to do. As with anything there are proper and improper tools to get the job done. Ice cubes are great. To get the sensual gliding effect, give them a few seconds in your hand to let the surface melt. Be careful what objects you freeze for temperature play. Some thing work, others don’t, so use common sense. An easy way to take care of this is to pick up toys specifically made for temperature play. A line gaining in popularity are the odd looking Dai-Do toys. They are made of high grade aluminum that conducts heat and cold very well. This makes them ideal for temperature play. If you are going to use at home products in your freezer, remember what happens when you put a wet tongue to a pole in winter. If you freeze something metal like strands of dog-tag type chain to run over your loves body or a freezable rolling pin, remember to run your hand over the item several times afte ryou pull it out of the freezer, or just run a bit of cold water over it so that it will not stick to her skin.