Asking Your Partner
Question of the Day:
How do you ask your partner how you are doing in bed without looking like you are fishing for compliments? I’m looking to grade my performace honestly so I know what else I can be doing for her in bed.
Angel’s Point Of View:
That can be a tricky subject, indeed. How do you know your partner isn’t padding your ego to keep from making you feel bad? Maybe your partner doesn’t know where you could improve, but just that something is missing. Maybe you are doing fine and she doesn’t want things to change.
Instead of asking how you are doing, ask what you can add. Ask what sex toys she’d like and experiment with those to increase your bag of tricks. Encourage her to tell you during sex what she likes. Watch adult movies together so she feels comfortable telling you fantasies. With all that, you should be able to increase your grade rather quickly.
