Not-So-Grand Finale
Question of the Day
I have a problem. Sometimes at the beginning of sex, I get a little overstimulated and my finale comes early. My wife has told me that it happens to a lot of guys and she is very supportive, but that doesn’t really make me feel much better. Is there anything I can do?
Angel’s Point of View:
It does happen to a lot of guys, but not a lot of guys are as ready as you are to do something about it. Taking control of your sex life is the first step, and you have already done that. Second is to address the problems causes.
You said it only happens sometimes. Try asking your wife to go easy on your genitals during forplay. Make it about her for a few minutes before she gets her hands on you. This lets her get a head start so you are more likely to cross the finish line closer together.
Second, look around at the products for sustaining or desensitizing. Avoid mail order male enhancement products. They are not tested or regulated by the FDA, and some of them are plain unsafe. For a simple solution, try Trojan Extended Pleasure Condoms with Climax Control. Condoms in general slow your pleasure some, but these have a lubricant that lowers the sensation your recieve. This keeps you from getting overstimulated too quickly. If this proves too much for you, just try a regular condom.
