My Husband’s Prostate
Question of the Day:
My husband wants to explore anal. I’ve been assured by friends and magazines that this isn’t an unusual request. I’ve read enough to know that his prosate is what I want to get at, but I don’t even know where it is. I don’t want to hurt my husband physically trying something new, and I don’t want to disappoint him either. Do you have any suggestions?
Angel’s Point of View:
Prostate play can be a lot of fun for your husband, but you are right to do your research to start with. Let me give you a few thoughts that will help you along that road.
1. The anus is NOT self lubricating. A good water or silicone based lube is imperative here. Tears to that part of your husband’s body would not be good for either of you, so use a healthy amount of lube.
2. This seems to be new territory for both of you. Go slowly and don’t rush. The anus is finicky and you can cause a great deal of discomfort by pushing in while he isn’t relaxed. Press the toy you’re using in just a bit at a time then hold it and give him time to relax. If he feels any pain, back up and go slower.
3. Start with smaller toys and work up. This may seem like common sense, but remember that certain equipment is made for certain parts. Your toys are not suited for his backside. Try picking up toys specifically suited to find the prostate, like a Nexus Glide. This toy even comes with a rollerball that stimulates his perineum.
