Sex Toys and His Ego
Question of the Day
I have been sex toy shopping, but I’m not sure how my boyfriend will react. I’ve approached the subject of adding toys into our sex life, but my boyfriend has gotten a little jealous at the idea. I’m not sure how to let him know that I want to choose toys that will enhance what we have, not replace him. What is a girl to do?
Angel’s Point of View
Plastic, rubber, and batteries will never replace what you have with the man you love. You know it, and I know it. Does HE know it? Sit down and talk to him outside of sexual situations. Forplay is not the time for this discussion. Let him know that you love what you have together and you’d like to explore new ground together. Emphasize that together part! Try to find sex toys that enhance what he has without replacing him. If you pick a vibrator, your best bet is to go with one smaller than he is. Be delicate with his ego until he gets used to the idea of mechanical devices in the bedroom. Remember to compliment his moves rather than concentrating on the toys.
