Small Surprises
Question of the Day:
Angel, I have a fabulous, monogamous relationship with my husband. He’s good to our children, romantic with me, helpful around the house, and ultimately, everything a husband should be. Here comes the, “but”. During sex, he’s a wonderful lover. He’s very attentive and caring, but he has begun to get his feeling hurt. We spice up our marriage with toys. The problem is that most of my toys are bigger than he is. I don’t judge him for being smaller than average, and I will always love him, but I am worried I will have to put aside that bit of satisfaction for the health of my marriage. What can we do?
Angel’s Point Of Vie
Sometimes the male ego is fragile, just like the female ego. We want to be everything to our partners and sometimes that isn’t reality. Talk to your husband openly and honestly. Tell him that he satisfies all of your desires except this one. Tell him you appreciate the fact that he is so understanding of your needs. Next, offer some ways to work through it together. Toy companies market penis extentions that pop right on his member. These toys are a sheith that goes onto the head of the penis, and it will usually add an inch or two. This would allow him to satisfy your need for size himself instead of feeling left out of the game.
