Sex Gifts
Question of the Day:
Angel, I want to get my girfriend something sexy for her birthday, but I don’t want the gift to come with any pressure or to come off like I’m only thinking of myself. I know she likes to feel sexy, and we play with toys together a lot, but I want to get her something that is sexy and fun for her without looking like a sleaze. I’ve looked through pages of toys, lingerie, and gifts, and they all look like gifts that say, “For your birthday, lets have sex!”. What do you suggest?
Angel’s Point of View:
Unless your girlfriend is hypersensitive, which I suspect she isn’t, this shouldn’t be a problem so long as the gift is from the heart. Sex gifts are always tricky though. One idea that would be for her and her alone is to set it up so you wouldn’t be around for the gifts trial. When she gets home, run her a bubble bath, light some candles, toss around the rose petals. Then, leave a non-threatening toy like the I Rub My Duckie or I Rub My Fishie on the side of the tub with a note instructing her to squeeze the cute, cartoonish duck or fish for a sweet surprise. Send her to the bath, then leave the house to give her some quiet alone time.